For awhile now ive been thinking how can i lose someone to someone else.
i guess its one of the defence mechanism called rationalisation.
my fragile ego was bruised. bruised badly.
call it epiphany. call it fate. call it chance. call it whatever.
i remembered the monk talk i heard sometime ago.. it said when u are commited to one another, u think for us. and whatever it is u need to inform the other person. and that is what differentiate involvement from commitment.
they say all is fair in love and war.
in this case, this is the only way to be fair.
i guess i finally understood?
i always think its because i wasnt good enough.
but when someone is commited to another person how was i going to win? there simply isnt any room for it.
it was never mine to begin with.
i guess its one of the defence mechanism called rationalisation.
my fragile ego was bruised. bruised badly.
call it epiphany. call it fate. call it chance. call it whatever.
i remembered the monk talk i heard sometime ago.. it said when u are commited to one another, u think for us. and whatever it is u need to inform the other person. and that is what differentiate involvement from commitment.
they say all is fair in love and war.
in this case, this is the only way to be fair.
i guess i finally understood?
i always think its because i wasnt good enough.
but when someone is commited to another person how was i going to win? there simply isnt any room for it.
it was never mine to begin with.
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